Monday, January 19, 2009

Freedom

A couple of weeks ago the leader of our support group asked us to think about our lives before surgery, and what we want our lives to be like after surgery. We were to use one word to describe each of these. My "before" word is complicated. Not because I have so much going on, with two jobs, theatre, family, art, life in general. My life is complicated because I'm busy, AND overweight. The physical and social limitations that obesity puts on your life complicates everything. Where I shop, where I park, what I wear, how long I can stand, where I can sit, are there stairs, will I fit in that aisle, how far I can walk. Weight affects everything I do.

My "after" word is very simple. What surgery means to me... is FREEDOM.