Day 8

Another good day in Seoul; beautiful scenery, excellent food, and great company. I spent the morning talking with Mrs. Seol Eun Hee about Post Adoption Services, then had Korean BBQ with her and the staff. I definitely like Korean food! I need to get a Korean cookbook when I get home.

In the afternoon we visited the Seoul train station to take pictures of the original building. Unfortunately, it is being renovated and we were unable to see any of it. They did have many pictures from the station's past, which I took photos of. Then we visited the Suh Dae Moon police station and a typical police box (like a small sub-station). Abandoned or lost children were often found inside the train station, or brought to a police station or box. Often, that is the only information in the adoptee's file. Having pictures of these may help some adoptees to understand that they weren't just discarded, they were left in public places, and taken to the local police to locate the birth parents.

Train station

Police box with a very cute young officer. I told Eun Hee I thought he was awfully cute, and she told him what I said. He blushed, then straightened his tie. He was even cuter, and probably thinks I'm just a weird middle-aged American.

I had a short day today, which was nice. Tomorrow will be longer, but just as interesting. I miss home, but I'm sad my trip is almost over. Even with my legs and feet as tired and sore as they are, I'd come back in a heart beat. I'm hoping that one day I'll be able to come over with the Holt Christmas Gift Team. Personally, I think Holt should do an exchange program where an HICS employee comes to work at Holt Korea for a month, and vice versa. Of course, the employee would have to be me! It would actually be a great way to understand the culture and witness the work first hand. Hmmm... It won't happen, but I can dream.

Day 7

I think today is Day 7. I'm getting a little rummy. I have never walked so much in my life! We spent the morning at the Holt office with Dr. Jeong. We saw 12 waiting children (considered special needs), many of them have been released to HICS for adoption, a couple have even been assigned to families. They were so cute!

Dr. Jeong is in the striped shirt. The women with the kids are their foster mothers. These women and their families commit so much time, effort, and love to these kids, it leaves me speechless. Some of the special needs are fairly major, but some are also fairly minor. One little boy is totally on target developmentally, absolutely adorable, but deaf. If I could, I'd take him in a heartbeat.

After an absolutely delicious lunch of Korean BBQ, served traditionally by cooking on grates over hot coals sunk into each table, seat on the floor, we went to Ilsan Town. Ilsan is Holt's "orphanage". It really isn't an orphanage any longer, its a small town with 250 residents ranging in age from toddler to 60. They are all special needs, some requiring round the clock intense care. There are also married couples living in their own cottages, supporting themselves through working in Ilsan's occupational training. Ilsan has its own hospital, in desperate need of renovation, church, huge gymnasium, central office, physical therapy, etc. It's incredible.

After returning to Seoul, Angie and I had dinner with my counterpart here, Mrs. Seol Eun Hee, and her supervisor, Mr. Lee. I know many of you have heard me talk about Mrs. Seol, and what a great time we have together. Mr. Lee has almost the same sense of humor! We went to a seafood and sushi buffet that was amazing. Although I only eat small amounts, the food is has been fantastic. Very flavorful. Even the soft serve sesame ice cream for dessert!

Angie, Pat, and Naomi leave for home tomorrow, escorting the cutest year old boy to his new family. I stay on for two more days, leaving Saturday. My lay-over in San Francisco is very short, so please pray for me to make it from one end of the airport to the other in time to catch my flight. I really, really don't want to spend another night there, especially on my own.

I can't wait to see what tomorrow brings! I can't wait to put my feet up!!!

Day 6

Very busy day today. Up early -- well, early for me! Taxi to the Holt offices. They had devotions and an awards ceremony, it's the 54th anniversary of Holt Korea. It was interesting listening to a church service in Korea. My friend Eun Hee lent me her bible which is an NIV Korean-English bible. It was pretty cool, especially since the NIV bible is what I'm used to. I'd like to get the Korean-English version.

After a tour of the Holt offices we went to lunch with President Min Kyung-tae, David Lim (from Eugene who happened to be in Seoul at the same time), Molly Holt, 3 physicians from Ohio doing a residency exchange, and a couple of guys I don't know. We went to Bulgogi Brothers - sort of a Korean version of our Burrito Brothers, but much nicer. The food was excellent, although with my dietary limitations I didn't get to sample much. What I could sample was delicious. Very traditional meal, the meat is cooked in a pot set into each table, with many side dishes.

Touring the office here made me realize how easy I have it in my own office. They have 3 or 4 people squashed into one room the same size as the director's offices at HICS. Some offices were slightly bigger, but the cubicles are only low half walls, so there is no privacy at all. These are temporary quarters as a new building will be erected on the site of the old Holt offices, but it won't be finished for at least 28 months. We also got to see a lot of babies coming into the office, foster mothers picking up donated clothes, seeing the Holt physicians, and even a couple of families meeting their new children.

After lunch Angie and I visited a home for unwed mothers, which was very interesting. Some of the girls looked so young! They also asked some very good questions, obviously concerned that their children will have a good life in their new families. We also visited a foster family at their home. Angie and Pat will be escorting the little boy home to Eugene to meet his new family. Tomorrow is his first birthday, he's been with this foster family since he was 2 weeks old. He was so cute, very chubby, and very active. The foster parents were marvelous, long time foster parents for Holt. It was such an honor to meet them in their home.

I have learned a few lessons since coming to Seoul: The white lines on the streets are suggestions; the clutch on a 5 speed is optional; if you can fit your bumper between the two cars next to you, then you have the right to change lanes; motorcycles don't have to obey any traffic laws; and even if you don't need to change lanes, you should do so every block or so, just to make your presence known. Oddly enough, the driving here really doesn't bother me, as long as I don't have to do the driving!

No pictures today, too busy. We are hoping to visit Ilsan Town tomorrow, Holt's orphanage and where Harry and Bertha Holt are buried. Our guide/translator/exceptional friend Mrs. Lee Eun Jeong went to the hospital today for an emergency appendectomy! We saw her this morning, and she didn't look well, very pale. By the afternoon she was in and out of surgery and feeling no pain. I've met her before, and loved working with her. She is also the social worker who handles all US Holt clients. She had 4 families coming in today, and another 3-4 tomorrow. She's going to be out for at least 2 weeks. I wish one of us spoke Korean so we could help out tomorrow with the foster mothers and new families!

I'll be sure to get a picture of me in front of the Holt office tomorrow.

PS. I love it here!

Day 5

Day 5, a quiet day. We all pretty much hung out at the hotel today. Angie and I walked over to a palace nearby, looked around there for a bit, but didn't feel like paying for the tour. Then we decided to just hang out here, nap, read, be totally boring. My legs are SO sore from walking that it was nice to just rest them. I regret missing out on doing the touristy stuff, but the rest of my week is going to be very hectic, so just resting today was probably a good thing.

Ordered Indian food to be delivered for dinner tonight. Excellent food, so spicy it burned all of my taste buds off. Definitely more authentic than the little Indian buffet at the mall! I'm thinking ice cream might be a good idea for dessert. Stay tuned for more adventures!

Day 4 Continued

It's now the end of Day 4. We spent most of the morning and early afternoon shopping in an area known as Insadong. A very narrow street with shops on each side. The street is really only used by pedestrians and scooters now. Lots of knick-knacks, tourist stuff, food stands with guys yelling to draw customers. Pretty cool, actually. Ate in a typical noodle restaurant, although I had dumpling soup since I can't eat noodles. I ate the soup and the filling in the dumplings. Very tasty!

The day didn't start off well, though. While walking to Insadong we were accosted by a man who seemed to have serious issues with 3 white women and a Korean child walking the streets. He walked up behind us while we were waiting at a cross walk and started yelling, ran over to Naomi, age 9, and slapped her face. I grabbed her and shoved her into mom's arms, then he started yelling at Angie and I, too.

A very nice couple stepped up behind us and every time the guy tried to get closer to Pat & Naomi, the husband would quietly move between them. As we started to cross the street they guy kicked Angie in the butt. Fortunately she was walking fast enough he didn't do any serious damage. The nice couple continued to run interference until the guy wandered off, both asking if Naomi were alright. We don't speak Korean, and they had very limited English, but sign language worked. Pretty upsetting way for a little girl to start off the day!

Everybody is ok, took awhile to convince Naomi that it was going to be alright, but we eventually had a good day of it. The man was obviously mentally ill, possibly homeless, although there are very few obviously homeless in Seoul.

On the bright side, Seoul is a very pretty, very clean city. Angie and I are going to be heading off in a different direction tomorrow to see what appears to be a very large palace nearby. Should be very interesting!

Day 4

Um... What happened to Day 3? I got up on Friday morning (Day 2), got on a plane just after noon, sat on the plane (mostly in the dark) for 11+ hours, got off the plane and it was 5pm Saturday. Got to the hotel, went to bed between 8 and 9pm, and woke up at 8am on Sunday (Day 4). Very strange feeling.

The day is beautiful, and the view from my hotel room is great. Seoul seems as pretty as it looks in the tourist books. The ride from the airport was a bit unnerving. The nice little old man who picked us up didn't speak English, grabbed one of our bags, and took off to the other end of the airport. I couldn't keep up. I can walk, just not fast. I thought I was going to die by the time we got to the van. It was still light out, then went to full dark by the end of the hour and a half ride to Seoul. Traffic is crazy, but that didn't bother me nearly as much as the fact that our driver still had on his dark sunglasses -- at night.

Today should be interesting. We're going shopping. I know this is going to be an interesting day. I don't walk fast, and my traveling companions do. But, we're centrally located, and I can always take a taxi back to the hotel and do a little sight-seeing close by. I'm good. Ok, I'm excited. I'm thrilled. I'm tired... LOL

I'll take some pictures today and try to post them later. Bye!

Day 2

I don't know why anyone would say that I'm dependent on technology! When I checked into the hotel last night (San Francisco) I realized I had the chance to recharge my "stuff" before I headed off for Korea. The PDA is recharging in the kitchen-ette, the cell phone by the bed, the laptop on the desk, the mp3 player plugs into the laptop to charge, and the electric shaver in the bathroom. What's so funny?

Went to bed at 10pm, after dozing off a couple of times, then woke up every 2 hours trying to get comfortable. My legs hurt, I have shin splints, my neck hurts (I just pulled it a little), and my lower back is killing me. I was up from 3am to 4am, probably because I normally only sleep for 6-7 hours, so my body may have thought it was time to get up. Oddly enough, I feel fairly well rested this morning. Of course, I've only been up for an hour and a half. We'll see how I feel in 6 hours!

Need to finish packing... again. We're going to get to the airport REALLY early. And wouldn't you know, San Fran airport has almost no fog this morning. Why couldn't it have been that way yesterday?

Talk to you soon....